Meet Lucy, the Founder of You Don’t Own Me
She is a Domestic Abuse Consultant, specialising in Post-Separation Abuse, Coach, Trainer and Columnist.
Empowering Voices, Inspiring Change: Domestic Abuse Awareness Speaker
Joining among others, Alzheimer’s Society Cambridgeshire County Council and Stowe Family Law LLP to open the door to conversations around domestic abuse and post-separation abuse, helping those who may be searching for answers but don’t know where to start. She is also a Trainer with the Independent Federation for Safeguarding – a thriving membership association for safeguarding professionals in the UK.


Consultant
She works with various organisations, including The National Trading Standards (NTS) Scams Team as part of their task force to develop their knowledge and understanding of domestic abuse, the language and approach we should all be taking when talking about abuse, and how it impacts all of us directly or indirectly. Lucy is proud to have signed the Fraud and Scams Victim Charter to support the NoBlameNoShame campaign
Coach
It is imperative to recognise the individuality of each situation while also recognising the recurring themes and patterns within Post-Separation Abuse.
And as part of the ICF-accredited course, Unrestricted Coaching Accreditation I’ve undertaken, I’m offering special discounted rates. Affordable, accessible support when you need it most.
Flexible scheduling to fit your life.
Every survivor’s experience is unique & needs to be recognised as such.
Coaching can help set boundaries, regain control, and rebuild.
Expert support can guide you through co-parenting challenges and the emotional impact of Post-Separation Abuse.
Introducing My 1:1 Coaching Sessions: Safe, confidential, and compassionate support.
The Let’s Talk Online Sessions
How much does your organisation understand about the issues and challenges faced by those experiencing domestic abuse and post-separation abuse?
How effective is the support you offer to your staff?
You Don’t Own Me delivers the Let’s Talk Sessions: Let’s Talk Domestic Abuse and Let’s Talk Post-Separation Abuse.
Helping organisations understand the complexities of abuse and what they can do to support those around them.
Through her sessions, Lucy helps organisations, including John Lewis Partnership to begin to understand the issues and challenges faced by those experiencing domestic abuse and post-separation abuse. And what organisations can do to support those around them.
Championing Change Through Journalism.
Lucy is also a columnist for Expert Profile Magazine, Mind & Thought Magazine, Success Mindset Magazine, EP Wellness Magazine and Be Better Magazine.
As a columnist, she helps elevate often-overlooked narratives around domestic abuse and post-separation abuse.
In doing so she helps reduce the stigma, shame and blame in talking about it.
Dispelling Myths & Misconceptions.
Lucy helps to educate readers on why victims sometimes remain or return to abusive situations, which in turn, raises awareness about the complex, ongoing nature of domestic abuse and post-separation abuse.


In her spare time, Lucy proudly sits on the Board of Trustees of Trafford Domestic Abuse Services